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4th Aug 2025

HH280: Behavior Is The Symptom! The Program is The Cause!

Did you know that behavior is simply a symptom? It is a symptom of your programming!

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner and a Board Designated Trainer of NLP, Time Line Therapy®, Hypnotherarpy, and NLP Results Coaching, helping people get to the root cause of their health issues and then get lasting results. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements.  Melissa’s business is 100% virtual – the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

Melissa has launched Amplify Impact Academy, with business partner, Billie Aadmi and together they train other coaches, practitioners and counsellors in the 4 mind-body healing modalities mentioned above, giving them powerful tools to use with clients to get results with greater ease, speed and grace. These courses teach life skills and anyone can take them, if you wanto be a better leader, parent, partner, be empowered in your own life, these courses are for you!

Melissa’s passion project is her non-profit, Girls Matter (www.girlsmatter.ca), breaking the poverty cycle 1 girl, 1 family, 1 village at a time.  The mission is to keep girls in school and stop teenage marriages, because school isn’t free in over 50 countries around the world and when parents have to make the difficult choices of feeding their kids or paying for school, food wins. And when the girls hit their teen years, they will often be married off so that someone else becomes responsible to feed them. Keeping girls in school instead creates a generational ripple effect, because an educated girl is more than twice as likely to ensure her on children are educated. Educating girls also grows the GDP of countries, when they get into the workforce. This is how together, we can change the world. Guests on this podcast are invited to donate to this important cause. Learn more here in this short video: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view?usp=share_link

Melissa is the winner of the 2024 Women in Podcasting Awards in the “inspiration & motivation” category and the 2021 & 2022 Quality Care Award by Business From The Heart and is also the recipient of the Alignable “Local Business Person of the Year “Award 2022, 2023 & 2024 for Whistler.

Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, the Aim Higher Summit and many more!  She has also guested on over 90 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get started.

 

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Transcript
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Welcome back to another episode of health hacks. Did you

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know that behavior is simply a symptom? It is a symptom of your

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programming. It is actually the program that is the cause. And

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trying to change your behavior without shifting the programming

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is really difficult, because you know, the moment life happens

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and it does, your behavior will revert to past behaviors because

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the program is still running, the program that is in your

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unconscious mind, the program that was created in the first

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seven years of your life. You see the programs that you built

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in those early years of your life determine whether you're

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running the love story or the horror show. When you look at

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life, whenever anything happens, what is the movie screen in your

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mind that is playing, is it the love story? Is it the horror

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show, or somewhere in between? If it isn't what you want it to

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be, the good news is that we can reprogram it. I just want to

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link for you though how the movie screen that you're playing

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impacts your behavior. You see, if you're running the horror

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show, that causes your brain to produce neurotransmitters of

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cortisol and adrenaline, because when it's the horror show,

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you're in fear, and that impacts how you feel, which, of course,

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impacts how you behave. If you're afraid, you're going to

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go into your shell, potentially hide, stay quiet, stay stuck,

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versus if you're running the love story. Well, now your

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neurotransmitters that are being produced are serotonin and

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dopamine and the feel good neurotransmitters, and that

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impacts how you feel. You feel good, you feel happy, and that's

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going to allow your behavior to have you standing in your power,

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stepping out into your brilliance. When we coach people

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looking at behavior is important, because we can't

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calibrate on feelings. Our feelings change from one minute

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minute to the next, so we have to calibrate on behavior. We're

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always asking, what behavior will you be doing that is

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different to what you are doing or not doing now, once you have

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the desired result from the coaching program, however, we

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don't start simply by attempting to change the behavior using

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willpower and tasking and accountability. That's conscious

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coaching, unconscious coaching. We literally look at your

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programming that is deeply ingrained in the unconscious

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mind, and we rewire it so that you start to run the love story,

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and that positively impacts your neurotransmitters, and it

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positively impacts your behavior. Now, if that is

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something that you would be interested in, you'll want to

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check out our next meet your unconscious mind workshop to

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learn more. DM me if you would like to learn more, because this

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work is powerful and it is fast, it is effective and it is

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lasting. It's using the other 90% of your mind. Check it out,

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because this is the easy way. It is not without effort, however,

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it is the easy way of you getting to live the life that

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you want. I invite you to step into that.

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About the Podcast

Don't Wait For Your Wake Up Call!
with Melissa Deally, Integrative Health Practitioner
As an Integrative Health Practitioner I have come to realize that we simply haven't been taught how to optimize our health, and that the average person has habits that are negatively impacting their health, due to this lack of knowledge, through no fault of their own. Public health and our school system simply don't teach us enough about nutrition, sleep, stress, gut health or how interconnected our bodies are! Modern life has us more sleep deprived, stressed out and the sickest ever, and I believe it is time to bring this education to you, so that you CAN be empowered in your health and you can then make the right choices for you and your family. The choices you make today impact your future 1 year, 5 years, 10 years + from now. It is never too early to start looking after your health, as Health is your TRUE wealth....without it what do you have?

I use this podcast to support my passion project - non-profit, Girls Matter (www.girlsmatter.ca), breaking the poverty cycle 1 girl, 1 family, 1 village at a time. The mission is to keep girls in school and stop teenage marriages, because school isn’t free in over 50 countries around the world and when parents have to make the difficult choices of feeding their kids or paying for school, food wins. And when the girls hit their teen years, they will often be married off so that someone else becomes responsible to feed them. Keeping girls in school instead creates a generational ripple effect, because an educated girl is more than twice as likely to ensure her own children are educated. Educating girls also grows the GDP of countries, when they get into the workforce. This is how together, we can change the world. Guests on this podcast are invited to donate to this important cause. Listeners are invited to donate as well. Learn more here in this short video: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view?usp=share_link

About your host

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Melissa Deally

Melissa is an Integrative Mind Body Health Practitioner helping people get to the root cause of their health issue. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures, but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual – the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing, so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.