The Be – Do – Get Formula to Living Your Best Life!
In this episode I explain why the old saying “Ask And Ye Shall Receive” doesn’t work, it turns out that It is only part of the original saying and a key part of the statement is missing, and that is the part that will lead you to success in receiving all of your desires. So don’t give up, tune in to learn the missing piece and how the Be – Do -Get formula is far more effective than the Have – Do – Be formula! If you set New Year’s Resolutions and have already fallen off, you definitely need to tune into this episode!
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Transcript
Imagine getting up every day full of energy is
Melissa Deally:if you were in your 20s. Again, what would that be? Like? What
Melissa Deally:would that be worth
Melissa Deally:to you? What is your health worth to you? Think about it.
Melissa Deally:Your health isn't everything. But without it, everything else
Melissa Deally:is nothing. And yet too many of us are taking it for granted
Melissa Deally:until something goes wrong. No one wakes up hoping to be
Melissa Deally:diagnosed with a disease or chronic illness. And yet, we've
Melissa Deally:never been taught how to be proactive in our health through
Melissa Deally:our school system, or public health. As a registered health
Melissa Deally:coach and integrative health practitioner, I believe it is
Melissa Deally:time this information is made available to everyone. Combining
Melissa Deally:new knowledge around your health and the ability to do my
Melissa Deally:functional medicine lab tests in the comfort of your own home
Melissa Deally:will allow you to optimize your health for today and all your
Melissa Deally:tomorrow's don't wait for your wake up call.
Melissa Deally:Welcome back to the don't wait for your wake up call podcast. I
Melissa Deally:am Melissa Daly, your host and today I want to talk to you
Melissa Deally:about the secret of changing your life and getting what you
Melissa Deally:want. And three little words be do get. It is now the end of
Melissa Deally:January. And I want to ask you How are you doing so far in
Melissa Deally:terms of your New Year's resolution or your intentions?
Melissa Deally:In a study of over 800 million people done in January 2021 or
Melissa Deally:early 2021. It showed that many people have fallen off their
Melissa Deally:resolution by January 19. And we're already past January 19.
Melissa Deally:Here, so be honest, have you fallen off? And that goes up to
Melissa Deally:80%. having fallen off their intention for the entire year,
Melissa Deally:by the second week of February? Why is it so hard to stick with
Melissa Deally:our goals and create habit change in our life? Well, too
Melissa Deally:often we believe that when we have this or that we'll be
Melissa Deally:happy. And then we'll be able to do more. And when we don't see
Melissa Deally:results. We give up too quickly. It all feels too hard. We are
Melissa Deally:living in a have do be a mindset. In that. First we think
Melissa Deally:we have to have something before we can do something in order to
Melissa Deally:be who we want to be. And the reality is is that doesn't work.
Melissa Deally:So let me explain. We all know the phrase, Ask and ye shall
Melissa Deally:receive. But you may not believe this works. And you may have
Melissa Deally:feel like manifesting isn't for you. And if you've been using
Melissa Deally:this statement, asking you shall receive and not receiving, then
Melissa Deally:it makes sense that you wouldn't believe in it. But the latest
Melissa Deally:research is very interesting. It shows that the original sentence
Melissa Deally:from the Dead Sea Scroll was shortened into that phrase and
Melissa Deally:is missing a key aspect, the aspect of believing and deeply
Melissa Deally:feeling that you already have what you want. This is the
Melissa Deally:original phrase from the Dead Sea Scroll, ask without hidden
Melissa Deally:motive and be surrounded by your answer. And that being
Melissa Deally:surrounded by your answer is feeling what it is that you want
Melissa Deally:deeply in your body. Your consciousness is the only
Melissa Deally:reality. So you must first know what you want to be. And then
Melissa Deally:assume the feeling of what you want to be. So it's knowing and
Melissa Deally:then assuming that feeling right and the being is the first step
Melissa Deally:is not have do and then be is actually be that person first.
Melissa Deally:Then you can do what you want to do in order to get what it is
Melissa Deally:that that you're asking for. So as an example, if you're asking
Melissa Deally:to lose weight, you have to first feel yourself more
Melissa Deally:healthy, more fit, lighter. Envision yourself as the person
Melissa Deally:you want to be. And this is so hard for us to do and that is
Melissa Deally:why so many are held back from manifesting what we want. You
Melissa Deally:see we don't get to receive what we want in life until we believe
Melissa Deally:we deserve it. And in that we've already achieved it. So we must
Melissa Deally:act as if we already have what we desire. This belief state is
Melissa Deally:so critical. And if you're not sure about that, go back and
Melissa Deally:listen to my December episodes, particularly the episode that
Melissa Deally:came out on Christmas Day 2021, when I was talking with a belief
Melissa Deally:expert, our mind and what we believe controls everything.
Melissa Deally:When I work with my clients, I will let them know that if they
Melissa Deally:don't first believe they can heal, they're not going to heal.
Melissa Deally:Right, the belief has to come first. So we have to believe in
Melissa Deally:who we can be. When we close our eyes, we need to envision that
Melissa Deally:person.
Melissa Deally:And as I said, if we're trying to lose weight, envision that
Melissa Deally:person in new clothes, you know, enjoying, perhaps it's enjoying
Melissa Deally:sports and things that you can't do today. Maybe it's enjoying
Melissa Deally:hiking, walking, whatever it is that you want to do, but you
Melissa Deally:can't do because you don't have your health. Maybe it's just
Melissa Deally:seeing yourself dancing in a field of flowers of you know,
Melissa Deally:Alpine flowers, having fun, enjoying life, just able to move
Melissa Deally:without pain, because you've lost the weight. And it's a
Melissa Deally:glorious, sunny day, and you've got lavender fields, and you've
Melissa Deally:got a big smile on your face. And you're wearing clothes that
Melissa Deally:you don't currently own because they're smaller sizes. And you
Melissa Deally:feel free and light and happy. envision that for you. What is
Melissa Deally:it that you want, because you need to start imprinting that on
Melissa Deally:your subconscious brain. And once you have that image, then
Melissa Deally:you want to feel it to your core. Feel how happy you are,
Melissa Deally:feel the warmth of the sun on your skin. Feel that what it
Melissa Deally:feels like to be free to feel light. And then the next step is
Melissa Deally:to do is to bring that future vision of yourself into the
Melissa Deally:present. Because again, you can't have it until you can
Melissa Deally:first believe in it and see it. Truly imagine what it would feel
Melissa Deally:like to be lighter, healthier, have more energy, less joint
Melissa Deally:pain, sleep better move better, because you've already lost the
Melissa Deally:weight. This is where meditation is so important, because you can
Melissa Deally:go within and meditate on exactly what it is that you
Melissa Deally:want. And you don't have to know the how you just need to know
Melissa Deally:what you want. And then the opportunity will present itself
Melissa Deally:for you to take some action, perhaps connect you with someone
Melissa Deally:who can help guide you through your weight loss. And then
Melissa Deally:that's the next step for you. That's the do is stepping into
Melissa Deally:the action. When you've been given that opportunity,
Melissa Deally:recognize that opportunity. You've been gifted and step into
Melissa Deally:that. And then the third step is to get the get is when you get
Melissa Deally:what you desire. Because you've done all the work in the B and
Melissa Deally:the do steps and been really clear on what you want start
Melissa Deally:implementing this today, you can start to feel dramatically
Melissa Deally:better within just a few days. If you were doing a detox and
Melissa Deally:weight loss can start to happen for you. You could be connected
Melissa Deally:to the very person you were supposed to meet today. But only
Melissa Deally:if you were open to this. First you have to believe so the
Melissa Deally:reason so many people fall off their new year's resolutions is
Melissa Deally:they don't believe and they don't believe they're good
Melissa Deally:enough. They don't believe they deserve to lose the way they
Melissa Deally:don't believe they can lose the weight. And they aren't willing
Melissa Deally:to stick with it for long enough. They aren't willing to
Melissa Deally:use all of their powers bring their subconscious mind to this
Melissa Deally:imprint that belief. But you can break it down more easily so
Melissa Deally:it's more achievable when you understand how this works and
Melissa Deally:how the brain works. And start with small steps. Ask yourself
Melissa Deally:what is it that I need to do and you want to find a plan and
Melissa Deally:implement the plan. And then as you start losing a weight it
Melissa Deally:will boost your confidence that will help you with believing
Melissa Deally:that you can do this and to further trust in the process,
Melissa Deally:which motivates you to do more to eat more cleanly continue
Melissa Deally:with your exercise, ensure you're getting good sleep at the
Melissa Deally:right times for your circadian rhythm. And now when you
Melissa Deally:visualize you can see it more clearly because you know you're
Melissa Deally:already on the way you can start buying smaller clothes when you
Melissa Deally:believe that deeply Bring those goals into your present reality.
Melissa Deally:That is how you achieve the results that you want. And this
Melissa Deally:is the key to achieving all that you desire. It's starting with
Melissa Deally:one thing, start to envision your success, believe in
Melissa Deally:yourself, see yourself in this new reality that you want a
Melissa Deally:journal and meditate about it and have it become your reality.
Melissa Deally:Now, is
Melissa Deally:this something that you do just once? Absolutely not. This is
Melissa Deally:something that becomes all encompassing in your life, that
Melissa Deally:you are focusing on this for a little bit of time, every single
Melissa Deally:day. And this is how we inform our subconscious mind of what we
Melissa Deally:want. And then through the power of magic of the universe, when
Melissa Deally:our belief is deep enough, we are gifted what we want. And we
Melissa Deally:have to feel it right to our very core. If you're enjoying my
Melissa Deally:content, and someone that wants to step into being proactive in
Melissa Deally:your health and learning more, I would love to invite you to join
Melissa Deally:my membership community. There's a link in the show notes for
Melissa Deally:only 1999 a month, you get access to all of my content. And
Melissa Deally:there's a lot as well as weekly calls that you can come and get
Melissa Deally:your health questions answered. It's truly priceless. I'd love
Melissa Deally:to see you join the community, check out the link in the show
Melissa Deally:notes. And I want to share an example with you of how I use
Melissa Deally:this. And at the time, I didn't even know that I was. But 30
Melissa Deally:years ago, when I first came to Canada, I fell in love with the
Melissa Deally:town of Whistler. And I decided I wanted to live here forever.
Melissa Deally:This place was paradise to me. And I wanted to stay at the time
Melissa Deally:I was on a working holiday visa, which gave me one year. But I
Melissa Deally:decided this is where I wanted to make my home my life. I
Melissa Deally:didn't want to stop traveling, I always wanted to continue
Melissa Deally:continue traveling. But this was going to be home based for me. I
Melissa Deally:completed the application process that everybody else
Melissa Deally:completes the generic form two times in that first year. And
Melissa Deally:was rejected both times it was a point system. And because of my
Melissa Deally:young age, I wasn't getting enough points. And that wasn't
Melissa Deally:gonna change because I couldn't suddenly advance my age by 20
Melissa Deally:years. But I knew this is what I wanted, I had no idea how I was
Melissa Deally:going to achieve it. But I knew that I was going to become at
Melissa Deally:the time I was going to get landed immigrant status for
Melissa Deally:Canada, which meant that I could stay forever, I still had to
Melissa Deally:live here for five more years before I could become a Canadian
Melissa Deally:citizen. But I knew I was going to achieve this. I also knew
Melissa Deally:that if you applied three times and got rejected three times
Melissa Deally:that then I really had no hope. So I didn't want to apply
Melissa Deally:through normal protocols a third time. So I went about my work
Melissa Deally:and my life, knowing that this is what I wanted. And it was in
Melissa Deally:the back of my mind all of the time. And one day I was
Melissa Deally:introduced to a person who was running a convention in
Melissa Deally:Vancouver, and they needed somebody who spoke Japanese. And
Melissa Deally:having been raised in Japan, I spoke Japanese and I was
Melissa Deally:connected to this person through a friend just out of the blue.
Melissa Deally:And they wanted to meet me to be an interpreter at this event.
Melissa Deally:And I was terrified because I wasn't a trained interpreter.
Melissa Deally:But I also knew that this was something that I had to do. I
Melissa Deally:didn't even know why I had to do it. I just knew that I had to do
Melissa Deally:it. So I met with them. I really liked these people and I was an
Melissa Deally:interpreter at that event. That event led me to being invited to
Melissa Deally:be an interpreter at an event in Tokyo at the Canadian Embassy on
Melissa Deally:behalf of the BC pavilion Corporation, a BC government
Melissa Deally:agency. Again, I was terrified, but I knew I had to do it. So
Melissa Deally:off I go to Japan and I'm in interpreting at different events
Melissa Deally:helping Canadian chefs and Japanese chefs talk and you
Melissa Deally:know, translating for them and helping them figure out menus
Melissa Deally:and menu items and going to the fish market with them and buying
Melissa Deally:ingredients etc, etc. It was an something I'd never ever done
Melissa Deally:before. But it was actually great fun. And I was attending
Melissa Deally:evening events and interpreting for people as well with many
Melissa Deally:government officials there. And I went Wow, here's all these
Melissa Deally:government officials. I could talk to them about the fact that
Melissa Deally:I want to stay in Canada. I want to extend my working visa I want
Melissa Deally:to become a landed immigrant maybe one of them can help me.
Melissa Deally:So I have one of the events I went around telling all of these
Melissa Deally:different government officials from our federal government, as
Melissa Deally:well as our BC government, my sob story of how I live in
Melissa Deally:Whistler, I do a lot of translation for all the Japanese
Melissa Deally:that were coming here to town at that time, I'm not taking a
Melissa Deally:Canadian person's job, and I want to stay in Canada.
Melissa Deally:And I got all of their business cards. And then a couple of days
Melissa Deally:later, I was in my hotel. And I went to the elevator bank. And I
Melissa Deally:think it was the third floor. And the only other person
Melissa Deally:standing there next to me was the premier of BC at the time,
Melissa Deally:Premier Harcourt. And I just thought, Oh, my goodness, I have
Melissa Deally:to tell him my story. And so I did. And I told him between
Melissa Deally:going from the third floor to the lobby of that hotel, my
Melissa Deally:story of wanting to stay in this country, and the work that I was
Melissa Deally:doing and how I wasn't taking a Canadians job, and I was never
Melissa Deally:going to go on unemployment or drain the economy, I was only
Melissa Deally:going to add to it. And in that elevator ride, he told me that
Melissa Deally:his grandfather had emigrated from Australia to he gave me his
Melissa Deally:business card. And he said to me, I can't get involved in your
Melissa Deally:case. But please, write to me when you get back. And I'll see
Melissa Deally:what my team can do, because he couldn't personally get
Melissa Deally:involved. When I got back to Canada, I sat down. And I wrote
Melissa Deally:to all of these people that I've met, asking them if there's any
Melissa Deally:way that they can help me get my landed immigrant status. And
Melissa Deally:this is back in the day, this is like, literally, I think it was
Melissa Deally:1991. I didn't even have a computer. So I'm doing this on a
Melissa Deally:typewriter, all of these individual letters to all of
Melissa Deally:these different government people and mailing them all off.
Melissa Deally:I heard back from one of them, the premier of BC, and he sent
Melissa Deally:me a letter again, saying I can't personally get involved in
Melissa Deally:your case, but I want you to please call this number at
Melissa Deally:immigration and see how they can help you. And I did. And the
Melissa Deally:person that answered my phone, the phone, it was as if she knew
Melissa Deally:who I was. And she sent me different paperwork that I had
Melissa Deally:to complete. And literally, within six months, I was a
Melissa Deally:landed immigrant, I had had to go back to Australia to do my
Melissa Deally:interview with the Canadian consulate there, I had to do all
Melissa Deally:my police record testing, etc, etc. But from that point on, I
Melissa Deally:had a human being at immigration that I could talk to, instead of
Melissa Deally:just an endless link to, you know, computerized codes of
Melissa Deally:press one for this, press two for that press three for that
Melissa Deally:and never actually getting answers never actually getting
Melissa Deally:the support that I needed. And the difference in all of that.
Melissa Deally:And getting to that state, I realized as I look back now was
Melissa Deally:I had seen myself as that Canadian citizen, I had seen
Melissa Deally:myself living here for the rest of my life. And 31 years later,
Melissa Deally:I'm still here and still love it and never regret that decision
Melissa Deally:of choosing to make this my home. I started doing what I
Melissa Deally:needed to do, even when I was terrified. And then I was able
Melissa Deally:to get what I truly wanted. And I didn't even know all of this
Melissa Deally:then, and but I look back and I see how I followed that
Melissa Deally:instinctively. And I met other people other Aussies in Wisser
Melissa Deally:who would say, Oh, you're so lucky. I you know, I wish I
Melissa Deally:could stay here. And just in their terminology of the wish, I
Melissa Deally:knew that they didn't really want it badly enough. They
Melissa Deally:didn't want to deep to their core, they weren't going to
Melissa Deally:follow the be do get formula in order to be able to stay.
Melissa Deally:Because wishing isn't enough. It's the wanting. It's that
Melissa Deally:deeply rooted desire. That is what is going to get you where
Melissa Deally:you want to go. So if you're just wishing you could lose
Melissa Deally:weight, if you're just wishing for a new job. If you're wishing
Melissa Deally:for a better, bigger house, that's not enough. But when you
Melissa Deally:start wanting it, and when you start imprinting that on your
Melissa Deally:subconscious mind, and when you start journaling it, feeling it,
Melissa Deally:envisioning it. I know a number of people that have completely
Melissa Deally:manifested and envisioned their new home. They would see the
Melissa Deally:home exactly what it had in it the layout almost exactly to
Melissa Deally:what they ended up buying. But first they had to vision it
Melissa Deally:and feel themselves see themselves living there seeing
Melissa Deally:their own furniture in that house. And then start doing
Melissa Deally:start working with realtors start telling your Realtors
Melissa Deally:being really clear and what it is that you want. And then the
Melissa Deally:getting doesn't happen in months. And sometimes it happens
Melissa Deally:in a couple of years. But they actually when they get the house
Melissa Deally:they want they know instantly oh my god, this is what I this is
Melissa Deally:exactly the house I saw, excuse me, in my vision. And that's so
Melissa Deally:powerful. So this truly can be done. But you have to want to do
Melissa Deally:it. And so a New Year's resolution that is about wishing
Melissa Deally:and not wanting is the new year's resolution that you're
Melissa Deally:going to likely fall off by January 19. Or if you're one of
Melissa Deally:the 80% by the middle of February. So shift up how you
Melissa Deally:plan what it is that you want for 2022. It's only the end of
Melissa Deally:January. It doesn't matter that January 1 is past you can make a
Melissa Deally:new, create a new desire that you want, and turn or create the
Melissa Deally:same desire. But take it deeper take it from that wishing and
Melissa Deally:loaded into put it into the wanting and that burning desire.
Melissa Deally:Because that's what will allow you to achieve it. And there's
Melissa Deally:still plenty of time in 2022 for you to do that. And you can get
Melissa Deally:started today. So some further books that you might like to
Melissa Deally:read that I have, and that I love is that I want to recommend
Melissa Deally:to you. This one here is a great book to read about the power of
Melissa Deally:our subconscious mind. It's called seven keys to unlocking
Melissa Deally:your full potential by C. James Jensen. And I learned so much
Melissa Deally:from that book in how our subconscious mind works. And
Melissa Deally:it's an incredibly powerful book. And turns out that the
Melissa Deally:author of that book is someone that I randomly met at a
Melissa Deally:conference, and that he actually used to work with my father
Melissa Deally:before I was born. So how small world was that? And I took that
Melissa Deally:to be a meaning that I was meant to read this book and powerful,
Melissa Deally:powerful learning in that book. And then if you want to dig
Melissa Deally:deeper into the power of manifesting, there's two books
Melissa Deally:here by Gabrielle Bernstein. The universe has your back and super
Melissa Deally:attractor, both really great reads, and so much learning from
Melissa Deally:her in this field that you can benefit from. And I just want to
Melissa Deally:finish off with saying that, over the holidays, I watched the
Melissa Deally:Polar Express movie with my adult kids. And the message of
Melissa Deally:that story is that those who believe can hear the ringing
Melissa Deally:bell from Santa sleigh. Belief is what allows us to achieve our
Melissa Deally:goals. If we don't believe we can achieve them, we never will.
Melissa Deally:But so often we get stuck in our conscious thoughts pulling us
Melissa Deally:out of our belief, telling us we can't weather we aren't good
Melissa Deally:enough. But as Henry Ford said, Whether you believe you can or
Melissa Deally:believe you can't. You are right. So what are you going to
Melissa Deally:choose to believe in today. And with that, I want to thank you
Melissa Deally:very much for tuning in and listening to this episode of
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