HH547: Bringing The Parts of You Back Together in Wholeness
Today, I want to talk to you about something called parts integration.
About the Host:
Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner and a Board Designated Trainer of NLP, Time Line Therapy®, Hypnotherarpy, and NLP Results Coaching, helping people get to the root cause of their health issues and then get lasting results. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual – the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.
Melissa has launched Amplify Impact Academy, with business partner, Billie Aadmi and together they train other coaches, practitioners and counsellors in the 4 mind-body healing modalities mentioned above, giving them powerful tools to use with clients to get results with greater ease, speed and grace. These courses teach life skills and anyone can take them, if you wanto be a better leader, parent, partner, be empowered in your own life, these courses are for you!
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Melissa is the winner of the 2024 Women in Podcasting Awards in the “inspiration & motivation” category and the 2021 & 2022 Quality Care Award by Business From The Heart and is also the recipient of the Alignable “Local Business Person of the Year “Award 2022, 2023 & 2024 for Whistler.
Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, the Aim Higher Summit and many more! She has also guested on over 90 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get started.
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Transcript
Welcome back to another episode of health hack as I continue talking to you about the tools of your unconscious mind, and today, I want to talk to you about something called parts integration. We all have these parts of us that feel like they're fighting each other, and what we want to be doing is bringing them back together so their whole rather than parts, by integrating them. And I just want to give you a little of analogy to describe this, so that you understand what I'm talking about here, and think of it as the layers of an onion. We are all born as pure essence, innocent little babies, and that's the center of the onion. And then as we start to grow older, you know, things happen in life, and what happens is we start to build a first layer of defense or protection around that inner essence. So this is the second layer of the onion now, and this is where we access the emotion shame. So a lot of what's happening in our unconscious mind and running our world in our young childhood years, we might be being shamed for by our parents, and so that first layer of protection is shame and feelings of being unlovable or unworthy or not good enough, or even powerless. And then what happens is, as we get a little bit older, we start to get angry about that. We start to build up fear around not being lovable or being powerless. And so that builds yet another layer of protection. And then what happens is that when life realizes that fear and anger can't protect you, it adds another layer, and that layer is a layer of sub personalities or parts, the part of you that wants to stand up and be seen and share your message with the world and the part of you that wants to curl up and hide. We all have parts of us. In fact, we have many parts of us because we've had a lifetime of these things, of this push pull happening within our life as we keep trying to move forward. And what many of us don't realize is that we can actually reintegrate these parts and bring them back together. Because what we realize when we use the tools of NLP is that these parts both have the same big, audacious goal. For you, it's just when we get down into the nitty gritty that they might appear to be at odds with each other, and so, using the tools of NLP, we bring them back together at a higher level here, where they're in agreement and in the unconscious mind, we have them literally reconnect. It is a very powerful technique that brings you to greater wholeness. And when we bring our parts together, it allows those parts to have access to all of the resources to keep you moving forward, versus this part having access to some of the resources over here, and this part having access to some of the resources over here, but none of that actually connecting, and you are stuck in a push, pull game within your unconscious mind that you may not even be consciously aware of, until someone brings it to your attention. And you start to think about it, and you realize, yeah, you know what? You're right. There's a part of me that wants this, the part of me that wants to be the good girl, and the part of me that wants to just get out there and rock my world, regardless of what people think of me, regardless of whether I'm following the rules and being the good girl. So we all have these parts. And if this is something that intrigues you, that you'd like to know more about, please reach out, Melissa at your guided health journey.com. I teach the tools of NLP and train other practitioners and coaches to use these tools as a technique to work with clients. And I, of course, work with clients one to one as well. So I love sharing this information because, of course, you only know what you know, and you don't know what you don't know. So by sharing it, I'm letting you potentially learn about something that you've never heard of before that could be very beneficial in your life.
